That’s my girl

Since the beginning of the women’s only class at my gym, I have been concerned about my ability to teach a class. As a blue belt with 1 year and 364 days of training (yup, tomorrow is my bjj-iversary), I didn’t know that I was qualified to teach anyone. However I felt really strongly that we should have a women’s only class and I would love to coach more when I grow up, so I was really excited to lead it when the program started.

Still with the rise and fall in attendance over time and the fact that if it weren’t for one very loyal, awesome student, there would be many weeks where I showed up to an empty gym, I can’t help but wonder if the class has had any effect.

Last weekend we hosted a women’s open mat (something we try to do once a month) where women from other gyms were invited to come train with us. We don’t typically drill much if at all in these and instead focus on rolling and positional sparring. We had a few people from other gyms come, me and my loyal women’s class student.

I was excited for the opportunity to roll with my student because I don’t really get an opportunity to do it much. We tend to focus mostly on drilling in the women’s class and if there are only a few students, I let them roll with each other and try to give them tips while watching. She’s been coming during the week for the regular classes as well but she is still in the beginner’s class so I don’t get to interact with her very much there.

So when the time came for us to roll I couldn’t wait to see how far she’d come since the last time we rolled (probably about 6 weeks ago at the last open mat). She had told me after the last time that she thought I was going too easy on her so I made sure to take it up a notch this time. I was really impressed with how she was handling herself. I started to think about how far she’d come and wondered how much of what she was doing she had learned from me.

And then it happened. The singular greatest moment in my brief teaching history. She got on top of me in half guard and what was the first thing she did? She jammed her shoulder right into my face. As I laid there with my head pinned to the floor by our smallest student, I couldn’t help but smile. If the only thing that comes out of the women’s class is that I taught one person how to use her shoulder to neutralize a bigger opponent, then it has all been worthwhile.


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3 responses to “That’s my girl”

  1. meghanbrown11 says :

    🙂 That’s awesome!! The women’s BJJ movement is definitely slow for sure. But I’m glad you’re making steps to keep it going strong. And teaching another girl that she can have an affect on a bigger, stronger opponent!

    And happy *almost* 2 year anniversary! I just started helping teach the kids classes and I’m just over a year in. So I’m sure you’re doing just fine!

    PS Love your blog. I hope mine is as great someday 🙂

    • Your Doom says :

      Thanks! I think your blog is pretty great right now 🙂 I realized this past weekend that two women I sometimes train with are also in medical school. Apparently women, medical school and jiu-jitsu are a good combination!

      • meghanbrown11 says :

        Aww well thank you! And no way, what a crazy coincidence! One day people will realize women do everything better 😉

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